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Sons Gangs Sex and Lost ChildhoodSons Gangs Sex, these three ingredients put together in early puberty, sans fathers/role models and guidelines, are about as compatable as a baby seal in shark infested waters. You just know something is not going re-emerge and what does is usually corrupted in some way. No gang, No-where, No-how, is going to make up for dads and families. The reasons why young boys join gangs are pretty much the same no matter where you are in the world, particularly in the cities. Two common denominators are poverty and broken homes. More often than not, the mothers are left to raise the children on their own. It is also no big secret that teen boys in gangs, and in one parent families, are more likely to have unprotected sex at an early age, and are also more likely to turn their backs on the mothers and their children that they have helped to bring into the world, repeating the pattern over and over. Sons Gangs Sex is all about dads who are MIA on a civil level and the impact their absence has on their sons lives. Boys in general don't pay much attention to the end result of sex without protection, let alone to the females they have sex with and the resultant babies. The matter-of-fact attitude of boys and a lot of men has not changed much when it comes to so called, 'easy' women. They somehow feel that banging lots of girls is fine for men, but that it is somehow wrong for women. They fail to see the irony of calling the girls that they have had sex with, 'whores', 'Ho's' 'sluts' etc, when they in fact are no different and are often far worse. The thought of what they would do if these so called easy girls and women shut up shop, so to say, has apparently never occurred to them!! This attitued can only get worse if fathers don't feel that it is their duty to pay attention to, Sons Sex Gangs and their childrens involvement there-in. For more information on single parent families in the UK and support, see link below on this page of Sons Gangs Sex. If we want to see a change in the mindset of our young sons who indulge in casual sex with multiple partners, then we have to change our bias of 'boys will be boys' for one, and the belief that boys can get on just fine without fathers or good male role models for another! Women also have to wake up to the fact that men are less likely to care about the end product of sex without protection, especially young teen boys. Babies frighten most young boys as well as adult men. They are very likely to run like the wind from a pregnant sex partner, and or resort to insisiting that the child cannot not possibly be theirs for a thousand and one reasons! Usually somewhere in those reasons the 'whore factor' will raise it's ugly head! The point that they are all missing is that sex begets babies and the fun part is over, now comes the time for the crime, to pay the piper, to stand up and be counted, to be a man, to be a father! Hopefully some of this rhetoric is sinking in. Only a real man can show his boys what it means to be a father by being one himself. The only gang that they should need is gang of mom and dad! Their sex education should come from their parents and most of all from responsible fathers who show how women and children should be treated by their own actions. Boys, our sons should not have to get their sex education off of toilet walls or porn' movels, DVD's and mag's. The content of such, only leads to unrealistic expectations and underpin the idea that all women are at the mercy of, or under the spell of the mighty penis, which only needs to be dangled or waved at them in order to make them swoon! Puhlease guys!! We have to make our kids understand that having sex is a big deal, and the end product is a big deal and not something that they can run from. Any girl who has gone to bed with a boy should still be respected, she has given a part of herself that can never be retrieved, and if it is treated like a take away meal, then neither of them will ever appreciate the enormity of the gift given and the gift recieved. Fathers and guys in general are great at ignoring their part in creating a bad reputation for some girl who had the bad luck to think she was in love, or was looking for someone to simply hold her. This only flies of course, so long as the girl is not a sister or daughter! Sex for girls/women is rarely as uncomplicated as it is for boys/men. Certainly fathers who are there for their sons can teach them at the very least to put a condom on before having sex. This would mean less unwanted children and less sexually transmitted diseases! It does appear to me, from the serious lack of focus given to this particular disease, HIV AIDS, that we in England feel we are immune. Unlike most other sexually transmitted diseases this particular one is NOT curable. It is at best held in check for a period of time with the help of many anti-retroviral drugs which like most, have side effects that are unpleasant to say the least. The information is available to those who are interested but it is not in our faces like other sexually transmitted diseases. Disrespect for sex is a part of a growing culture that stems from a burgeoning lack of respect for people and life. Sadly fatherless children who become part of the gang culture are often at the center of it. There is nothing more intimate in our lives than death and sex. The one is a part of life that can give the most pleasure and the other the most pain. Both can only be felt by the persons directly involved. If everything our sons know about both these two things, is coloured by an ignorance of love and empathy, then it is no wonder we find ourselves in a growing society of careless sex and casual killing. Our innocents do not have the luxury of waiting for the univeristy of life to catch up with kids who could care less about who they sexually degrade, or plunge a knife into. Sons Gangs Sex is all about empowering our sons in our gangs, through education, understanding, love, equality, fairness, rules, boundaries and fathers staying involved. Quote from Norman Brennan, a police officer and director of the Victims of Crime Trust. 'Knife crime is out of control and kids carry them like fashion accessories,' For more insight and perspectives on sons across the world I have inserted a link to Universal Family Flag below. 
Sons Gangs Sex is all about empowering our sons in our gangs, through education, understanding, love, equality, fairness, rules, boundaries and fathers staying involved.
For more insight and perspectives on sons across the world I have inserted a link to Universal Family Flag below. Quote from Norman Brennan, a police officer and director of the Victims of Crime Trust. 'Knife crime is out of control and kids carry them like fashion accessories,'
Unfortunately information regarding gangs in the UK is sparse when compared to the US. I have added a few links in at the foot of the page that give some stats, or that offer help and information Universal Family Flag Sons
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